It Finally Clicked - After 8 Years Of Trial & Error (My Most Impactful Lessons)
Mar 31, 2024Over 2900 days…
Over 350 books…
This is roughly what it took for this manifestation stuff to finally click for me.
No more confusion…
No more analysis paralysis…
I wasted a lot of time, energy, and money trying to get that click that you’re waiting for, that light bulb moment where you finally see clearly.
Well, let me tell you some real shit.
You don’t need to read 350+ books.
You also don’t need to spend 2900+ days learning.
All you need to do is listen to everything I’m about to say because through 8 years of trying everything, and I mean everything, I’ve simplified it all to give you that click.
This manifestation stuff isn’t some trend to me, this is my life and that’s why entrepreneurs who are making 5-7 figures per month hire me as their esoteric advisor.
Lock in.
Manifestation isn’t magic, it’s a skill
First of all, manifestation isn’t magic.
Well, it kinda is and isn’t, let me explain…
Manifestation is a skill
And like any skill, the more you do it, the better you become.
If you’re struggling to manifest your desired reality, you’re not doing anything wrong, you just haven’t been putting your reps in.
Your ability to lift reality is dependent on how much manifestation muscle you have.
You wouldn’t go to the gym and lift way more than you can would you?
At least, I hope not, I once dropped 100kg on my head benching…
Anyways, most people see manifestation wrong.
If you’re like me, when you first heard about manifestation you probably saw a lot of corny new-agey people talking about it, you know the typical “I’m spiritual” starter package.
Well, most of the time, those people don’t actually know what they’re talking about because they’ve never truly gone below the surface.
They make manifestation out to be like some magical, and mysterious thing but it’s a spiritual science.
And when you see it like this, it allows you to have a system for it.
The problem is, when you see manifestation as magical and mysterious then that belief becomes a reality and it can only be a mystery to you.
A clear sign of this in your life is if your manifestations are random and never on command.
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
When you see manifestation as a skill, then it becomes less mystical and more practical.
Not only that but framing it as a skill gives you the conscious opportunity to get better at it.
And the better you become, the easier it gets.
Like with any skill, incremental progress is the best route to success.
It’s about letting the energetic momentum be built from getting small wins.
Small manifestation wins are your best friend because they allow you to build confidence which is the elixir of all manifestation.
Confidence which is foundational to manifesting your desired reality is built from evidence that you actually can do it, so make it easy for yourself.
This could be deciding whether you’ll see a red balloon or a specific car.
What this will do is build your manifestation muscle, so by the time you decide to manifest your desired reality, you lift it with ease.
Most people make the mistake of trying to manifest $10k pm when they are making $500 pm trying to fit a watermelon into a glass, it just won’t work.
You must always keep in mind the reference of your subconscious mind to perceive your desires.
Think about it like this…
It’s easier to climb the steps up to a mountain than to try to jump up in one move.
This is how you make a snowball turn into an avalanche.
The technique does not matter
It’s all a lie.
I remember when I first got into manifestation, I was mind-blown by the idea that I could change my life, that I could go from survival mode to actually living all with my mind.
This fascination sent me down the rabbit hole of searching for the holy grail…
The one technique that would work for me…
The one technique that would change it all.
Then I received a rude awakening after trying them all, with no results…
There is no best or secret technique, that is a lie.
The best manifestation technique is you.
None of those techniques work without YOU.
It is the energy that you pour into them that activates them to work.
The emotional conviction that you have that it will work is the only thing that makes it work.
The rabbit hole that you’ve probably been in will try to sell you the latest shiny objects.
They’ll say “POWERFUL AFFIRMATIONS”, “MONEY SUBLIMINALS”, or “PERFECT VISION BOARD.”
It’s all a scam. Wake up.
“So what technique will work for me, Nero?”
Whichever one you believe in, and that’s for you to decide.
You don’t need to do it all the time
Wake up, visualize.
Wake up, do affirmations.
Wake up, and stare at the vision board.
Wake up, and write lies in the gratitude journal.
Do you ever feel stuck in a loop when it comes to manifestation?
Does it ever feel like a chore?
Like an obligation?
Well, that’s a mistake you need to stop mistaking.
You don’t have to do it every day.
Did you know that I’m related to Malcolm X?
Okay, that’s a lie.
You didn’t believe it, did you?
Well, you believed a lie that the manifestation industry told you, and that is…
The idea is that manifestation is something to do, instead of something you already do.
Imagine someone trying to sell you on how to breathe…
See how silly that it is?
Manifestation is like breathing.
You do it 24/7 just unconsciously but it’s not until I point that out that you become aware of your breathing and some focus shifts there.
So long as you see it as something to do, instead of something you already do, you’ll keep chasing the shadow without realizing it’s you.
You don’t need to visualize every day or do affirmations every day.
Why would you need to do techniques every day when you already manifest them every day without them?
It’s not a job…
It’s not a rule of the universe…
It’s just something that you heard and ran with which is fine but I want you to manifest what you want with the least amount of effort.
Doing techniques is cool, however the moment they begin to feel like a chore, stop and detach from them.
More important than techniques is your state of being.
Who are you throughout the day?
Are the thoughts you’re thinking reflective of your desired reality?
Are the attitudes and moods you’re feeling reflective of your desired reality?
What about what you’re giving your attention to?
State of being > Techniques.
The more you’re able to consciously direct the above, the less reliance you’ll need from doing techniques every single day.
It’s not a chore, but if you make it one then it will be.
It’s not about intense emotions, it’s about serene confidence
I felt like a crackhead.
Walking down the street with my face smiling so hard that it hurt.
Why?
Because some lady who looked like a crackhead on YouTube told me manifestation is all about feeling good, happy, euphoric, and joyous all the time.
I’m a very relaxed-chilled guy in real life, so this was very off-brand for me…
Which brings me to another lesson you can avoid.
Manifestation isn’t about feeling euphoric and high…
It’s the blind leading the blind…
Most people follow the idea that if you manifested your desired reality you’d feel euphoric and high which may be the case for some but it wasn’t for me…
Understand this and you’ll stop listening to crackheads online…
Not all manifestations are equal.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach that will work for everybody.
And if you don’t realize this, you’ll miss the most important part of manifestation and that is you.
Know yourself.
I’m a pretty nonchalant chilled guy, so if I manifest my desired reality, sure I’d be happy but I wouldn’t be smiling 24/7.
And the truth is, even when you do manifest your desired reality you won’t be happy 24/7.
Which highlights the correct path…
To manifest you just need these 2 words…
Serene confidence.
Not every person I’ve personally worked with would be euphoric and happy if they manifested their desired reality but all of them would feel calm, and confident.
More important than feeling joyous, euphoric, and on a high is feeling calm, secure, and confident.
These emotions are subtle, but they last longer.
There’s a reason it’s called a high, because sooner or later there is a low…
But, when you just naturally feel calm, secure and confident that’s easier to maintain emotionally and it’s a clear indication to the universe that your desire has manifested.
It’ll come when you’re good with it and without it
You want it too bad.
The universe is like a pretty girl, the more you want her, the more she runs away.
But, when you stop caring, stop chasing, and stop placing that excess importance, her whole vibe changes.
It’s the same thing with the universe.
I remember, when I was in survival mode there was nothing more I wanted than to feel free for once without having to worry about my mom struggling.
I wanted it so bad.
I mean, why wouldn’t I?
Who wants to feel helpless?
And because I wanted it so it escaped me, it felt like the world hated me.
As weird as this sounds, the moment I stopped caring it worked…
I know, cliché but there’s power in them…
The funny thing is, you’ve been utilizing this secret power throughout your whole life and never knew.
Enter the secret frequency of not needing.
That frequency is embodied by:
- Not caring too much.
- Not being so fixated on the outcome.
- Not letting your emotions be swayed by the attainment or failure to attain.
Think back to the past when you either didn’t care or stopped caring about a certain subject, a certain person, an event, or a game and you completely killed it, the success was so effortless.
The frequency of not needing what will collapse the gap between you and your desired reality.
Take this example about money;
The people who have the least amount of money want it the most.
The people who have the most amount of money want it the least.
When you’re in a state of mind where you don’t need anything, it opens the room for inner peace and well-being, which are all prerequisites for successful manifestation.
Manifestation isn’t what you think it is
Is manifestation creating your reality? Nope.
Is manifestation controlling your reality? Nope.
Everybody has the wrong definition.
Most people would define manifestation as one of the above.
And it makes sense, that’s why everybody is still struggling to manifest.
The true definition of manifestation is shifting internally to a degree where you are no longer emotionally dependent upon seeing your reality change.
Everything else is a lie, I’m sorry.
If you can get that one thing alone you’ll never have to watch another manifestation video in your life again, and that’s no exaggeration.
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