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The Reason You're Here, Parental Spiritual Transmutation

Jul 09, 2023

At some point, you’ve wondered;

Why am I here?

Why did I have to be born to these people and why here?

The universe clearly guided you here, to have these questions answered.

And the answer is, you chose them, you just forgot.

You chose all of this…

Well, when I say you, I mean your immortal self, the spirit.

The trauma is what you’re on earth for. Crazy right, gotta love spiritual alchemy…

You see, your spirit knew you would get some trauma from your parents, but that’s what it wanted.

All to conquer, rise above, and learn from it but see if you don’t, you’ll stop your spirit from being able to elevate.

Most people never clear their parental trauma and because of that will remain trapped in mental and spiritual prison for the rest of their life.

And the worst part is, that trauma will be passed down to your children, and I know you’d hate for your children to have your traumas.

That’s exactly why you must finish this article because by the end you’ll know how to conquer, rise above, and learn from, that trauma, and potentially even change your relationship with your parents forever…

I want you to know, that this isn't for them, it's for the elevation of your soul.

Spiritual alchemy

I mentioned spiritual alchemy at the start of this article…

To sum up it, your spirit came here to perform spiritual alchemy and undergo a process of spiritual transmutation.

All this means is transmuting or changing the dark aspects of your spirit(pain, frustration, anxiety, worry, anger, and sadness.) to light (love. knowledge, and unity).

Once this is done it creates a pathway for the integration into the oneness with God.

For this to happen, energy must be able to freely flow throughout the energy centers of your body, known as chakras.

That parental trauma you have is either stored in the solar plexus chakra or the heart chakra and it blocks that ability for energy to flow. up to your third eye/pineal gland.

It’s important to understand that, a body that does not let energy flow through it is a useless vessel, no different from a dead one creating energy attractor fields for more suffering and potentially, disease.

I always say “To be alive and to live is not the same.” I don’t think I’m the first person to say it though, I feel like it comes from Marcus Aurelius or Seneca…

Let’s look at your upbringing

As you get older and look back on your childhood you begin to see the errors and mistakes in what your parents said, how they said it, how they handled things, how they punished you, and sometimes even how they loved you.

You probably think they could have done a better job, they could have done things differently and you most likely feel some type of way towards them, which is normal.

You probably avoid reminiscing about childhood memories of your parents because it can quickly lead to resentment. After all, why did they do what they did?

To reiterate, feeling some type of way towards your parents is normal, it is part of human nature but denying or resisting these emotions is where the true danger lies.

It opens up the door for all those feelings to integrate and feed into your shadow self.

It’s important you know that for your evolution, there must come a point where you must bestow grace onto your parents and recognize them just as people run by programs.

Parents-to-people paradigm shift

You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t understand programming, you know that for the most part, people are run by their programs, and their programs construct their reality, so why would your parents be separate from it?

Your parents are just people.

This isn’t removing their responsibility or their accountability but it’s to elevate your perception by bringing you the reminder of the true nature of reality.

Your parents simply inherited programming from their parents, who lived in a world void of the information and the understanding that you have now.

I’m sure you’ve even heard your parents talk about their childhood and were completely shocked at how they were raised, most of the time normalizing trauma…

And it’s because of this you must recognize that nobody, not even you can act outside of the programming that you have running in your mind.

And, that’s exactly how you need to see them, just as victims of their programming.

Before the label of a parent, they are people, that’s truly what they are.

Most of the time, they don’t have the tools to unravel their trauma or be self-conscious and remember, different frequencies, different languages, and different worlds.

The same way you would view a friend of yours who consistently is trapped by their mind is how you need to see your parents.

You can break the generational curse

I’m African and in my culture, it’s believed some people have generational curses.

I hear so many others say this, and I can assure not every single family has been bewitched, most of the time the only generational curse is our minds filled with poverty, failure, limitation, and scarcity.

Here’s the beauty of all this.

You have the power to break the chain so long as you continue to elevate your mind and take metaphysical responsibility for your reality.

You must transcend your parental trauma, regardless of whatever they did to you because at the end of the day, it’s your soul that is held in limitation and a lesser frequency.

Like I said at the start, this isn't for them, it's for the elevation of your soul.

Truth be told, sometimes we’re not ready to forgive our parents and if that is the case, then you gotta be honest with yourself about that and then make the decision to be ready.

The Parental Trauma Journey

If any of this is making sense to you, then here is the journey you’re currently on.

It goes as follows;

  1. You feel anger, resentment, and pain towards your parents.
  2. You recognize the way life, and their parents molded their minds.
  3. You then have understanding for the way they are, and the way they raised you.
  4. You then pity them.
  5. You then help them overcome their subconscious programming, if they’ll let you.

Conquering the parental trauma

Asking your parents this question will enlighten you with a higher degree of consciousness but also a deeper understanding of who they are.

Ask them, what they wished their parents did differently.

Dependent on vulnerability and honesty, this question alone will be enough to give you insight into your parents being people as opposed to parents.

This process will only work so long as you want to make it work, and I mean truly in your heart.

Remember, this isn't for them it's for the elevation of your mind and soul.

Before ending I want to give you this Buddhist proverb: “Holding onto anger, frustration, and disappointment is like holding a hot coal and never throwing it.”

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